A daughter’s story: A legacy gift

When Daxa lost her father over a decade ago, her world shattered. He wasn’t just her dad, he was her best friend, a pillar of the community, the founder of Leeds’ first Hindu temple, her inspiration and anchor in life. In his final months, she nursed him at home, giving up her full-time career in law to be by his side. When he died, she didn’t just grieve his loss, she grieved the life she had known, feeling like she had lost her identity along with him.

Although St Gemma’s Hospice had offered support in her father’s final days, Daxa was determined to care for him at home herself. Immediately after he died, the Hospice’s bereavement team reached out to her. At a time when she felt she had nowhere else to turn, their offer of support became a lifeline. “It was the only avenue I had,” Daxa reflects. Over the next two years, she met with a Hospice counsellor who tailored each session to what she needed at that moment. Slowly, she began to piece her life back together—one day at a time.

The Hospice provided not just guidance but a space where she was cared for with respect and compassion.

The support she received didn’t just help her through her grief, it gave her a way to channel the love and pride she had for her father. Determined to give back, she ran the London Marathon in support of St Gemma’s and has left a gift in her Will to ensure others receive the same care she did.

Today, the Hospice remains an important part of her life. She continues to champion their work, knowing first-hand how vital their presence is for those in need.